The following are some typical signs of a cheating spouse or infidelity. Just because some of these things apply, that alone does not mean that your partner is having an affair. It simply means that you have a reason to be concerned. Don’t guess, let us find the facts for you !
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- They sets up a new e-mail account and doesn’t tell you about it.
- Finds it necessary to put a password on the computer.
- Deletes all incoming e-mails when they used to accumulate
- Spends an excessive amount of time on the computer, especially after you have gone to bed.
- Installs programs in order to detect your snooping, or to erase where they have been.
- They minimize the screen whenever you walk in the room while their on the computer.
- They buy a cell phone and don’t let you know.
- Sets up a separate cell phone account that is billed to their office or changes the billing so that the details of the calls are not shown.
- Begins to delete all incoming and outgoing calls from the caller ID.
- Begins to delete all incoming and outgoing calls from their cell phone.
- You get calls where the caller hangs up when they hear your voice.
- Receiving calls from a blocked number.
- The person uses a low voice or whisper on the phone or hangs up quickly.
- Leaving cell phone in vehicle (locked).
- Password on cell phone that has to be entered before it displays any information.
- Sudden increase in time away from home.
- Decreased sexual interest with you.
- Spouse is often distracted and day dreaming.
- Spouse is often “unavailable” while at work.
- Spouse attends new functions out, wants to go alone.
- Cell phone calls from you are not returned in timely fashion.
- Spouse leaves house or goes to other rooms to talk on the telephone.
- Spouse uses computer alone and secretly.
- Spouse asks about your schedule more often than usual.
- Mileage on car is high yet they report only short distance errands.
- Clothes smell of perfume or cologne.
- Spouse gets their laundry done independently.
- Unexplained payments on bank statements.
- Spouse has more cash on hand without accountability.
- Cell phone bills contain calls with long duration.
- Cheating spouse now has a phone card but never used one before.
- Spouse has unexplained receipts in wallet or purse.
- Spouse has suspicious phone voice-mail messages.
- Spouse has suspicious cell phone numbers stored or dialed.
- Internet web browser history list (this is a record of web sites visited) contains unusual sites.
- Spouse begins to use new or free e-mail account.
- Spouse is suddenly deleting e-mail messages or text messages.
